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Emotional Abuse: Not as Obvious as You’d Think

Emotional Abuse: Not as Obvious as You’d Think.

Another not-so-shining example of emotional abuse, this time with the added stress of premature birth. Another story of survival and courage…Remember, there is a person behind every single one.

The abuser sought to make it “All About him” and accused his pregnant ex-partner of “Attention Seeking” and “Being a Drama Queen”

Words that sound all-too familiar. In my case, for daring to have bad days thanks to depression. For having the nerve not to fire on all cylinders when my ex needed my support, but wasn’t prepared to give me his. When faced with that kind of selfishness, there’s a useful word to remember. Goodbye. Shame it wasn’t on the tip of my tongue when I needed it most.

I will keep posting these and I hope people keep reading.


About flowerofcarnage

I am...A Firebrand. A mouthy cow. Nobody's fool. A strong feisty bitch. An occasional gobshite. An intelligent and educated lady. An over-user of the word Douchebag. Schadenfreude Enthusiast. Grindhouse Movie Afficionado. A slayer of dragons and destroyer of demons...All before lunchtime! I love...Cats. Dance. Exercise and it's positive effect on mental health. The colour red. My home land Wales, Subculture folk (as long as they rock it and not the other way around!), Long walks in the early hours of the morning, Graphic Novels, Anti Heros, DC Comics. Creative and well-executed skin art. Werewolves, vampires, old Italian zombie movies, horror stories, slasher flicks, B-Movies, Anything Grindhouse and Quentin Tarrantino in general (Deathproof is my favourite movie of all time), Comedy of all descriptions. Wandering around city streets, preferably in good company but sometimes just with my MP3 player turned up to maximum whack. Finding positives in negative situations. I reserve the right to me. Your permission is not necessary or required. I demand the same of anyone who enters my life with the intention of staying.

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